Hey lovelies, hope you’re well and good today?
Today, my post is going to help a lot of people because I would spill out the very painful truth. I would also get lots of criticisms, you know why? because people always refuse to accept the truth and some people prefer living a lie.Today’s post would be about knowing who you are and accepting it.
Guys, right from birth, we were given our identities by the Most High.. This identities, I believe, where given to us in other to fulfil a purpose here on earth. By ‘identity’, I believe, are the traits we possess from birth and in other to fulfil our purpose on earth, we must own our identities and accept who we are. This identities, coupled with our home training and experience, is what I believe, takes us far in life.
I have been to a church, which told me I was different and abnormal because I refuse to accept the hypocritical teachings of the pastor. I have also been to a ‘british’ university, which tried to destroy my reputation because I refused to accept some of their teachings which I found out were untrue. I left the school after two years because most things they taught were not applicable in real life and they themselves did not practice what they taught. In that school, they believed “sticks and stones may break their bones and words would never hurt them”. Whilst I believe this might be true, the same lecturer that taught that saying, was very weak to the words of people said against her and would do everything in her power to get vengeance. I have been to a school, which tries to break the spirits of their students, then they blame them for being broken and charge them thousands of dollars promising to repair the psychological damage the school caused in the life of the student(s).
I have seen many church parishioners of some of this churches or even students of some of this schools get broken in their spirits and look up to the authorities of this institutions to ‘heal’ them forgetting who they were before the psychological damage caused to them by the authorities in this institutions. People forget their identities and accept the false identities and teachings of this fraudulent schools and churches.
I have seen some uneducated people make it big in life, or some atheist live long in wealth. Why should that be? Well, I do not know the answers to this questions and I hope for you to help me out as I am just a wandering soul searching for answers to questions concerning this world , just like the rest of you.
Question to ponder on is: who are you? My dears, who are you? Who were you before the world tried to break your spirit? What was your original identity before they tried to sell you a false one? who are you?
I have seen lost people wandering the world, in search of happiness, in search of purpose, in search of answers.. answers to the questions which can be found within them. Some fight, to fulfil their purpose in life, whilst others die, trying.
I believe, my dears, that the answer to this very important life question can be found by looking within, by getting in touch with your original identity. Everyone has an original identity, it can be found in that little child you were before this schools/churches tried to sell you a lie..
I believe by looking within ourselves, we learn to accept our original identities. Do not kill the little child within, for she knows the true you . I believe we should be in touch with ourselves, love yourself from within, love the child in you. Do not kill her in other to be acceptable in the world. I believe, then and only then can we know who we truly are to fulfil our purpose on this earth.
Furthermore, I am not totally against the teachings of some of the churches and schools, but one thing I know for sure is that we all have a sense to tell between the right and wrong, and to accept to learn what is right and reject what is wrong and in doing so, we do not totally forget our original identities.
In the end, every body cannot be a rose, some would be a sunflower, some, lily flowers, some, jasmine flowers and some, not flowers at all but gems or the likes. I’m looking forward to your feedbacks, and criticisms of course. We can make this session an interactive one!.
Be you, be free!
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